Players: Man (wife) and woman (husband). Activistls: Either can surprise the other, or the game can be played mutually.
Setting: Home, or hotel.
Aim: To activate and resolve unconscious or conscious envy and fear of the opposite sex through gender reversal.
Game Plan: One evening, a spouse will come home to find the other spouse has changed genders—that is, has dressed in clothing of the opposite sex. The husband may come home to find the wife dressed in a suit and tie, wearing a “crew-cut” wig, sporting a mustache or beard, smoking a cigar. The wife may come home to find the husband wearing a dress, a longhaired wig, lipstick, rouge, and high-heeled shoes. In this case the element of surprise will add spice to the game. Or, the husband and wife may simply pick a night to mutually play the game.
In this case, the wife comes home to find her husband dressed in women’s clothes. She proceeds to play the male role of being the sexual aggressor. If the game is mutual, she may wear men’s clothes, too.
“Well, well—look who I’ve found,” the man (wife) says to the woman (husband). “How pretty you look in your pink dress.”